Lists

What do we usually see in lists? Names, numbers, results, etc. It could be anything. I’ve had a lot of dilemma in dealing with lists. They’re a ponderous work, especially for making invitations. 

I always thought that a list always made people anxious and pressured to attend the event. This falls on the personal pride of some people. Sometimes when people are not included within the list, they think they’re not invited. And these people tend to end up being a “diva”, making themselves feel special by telling people that they’re not attending the party and so on — this makes the whole list crumble. I know they’re just the jerk offs and c(j)ockheads who think they’re cool because people know them. They’re just making a mess of the whole “social” point of the event.  

I’m not a very sociable person (I see a “forever alone” meme coming), that’s why I don’t organize parties or any event involving a lot of people. Even going to the mall is a challenge for me, what more a social event that I’m hosting? With that *ehem* “anxiety” of mine in mind, I’ve thought of not to have a list of guests or people I expect to come to my party, or for any event that I’ll be organizing. 

@2 months ago
#rant